"How can I become more orgasmic?"

There is many factors that come into play to give a full answer to this question. It is a rather loaded question let’s say.

For now: let us focus on the body.

What can you do with your body to become more orgasmic?

Play, explore, get curious. On your own.

That final sentence is probably the most important one.

All too often we wait for sex until there is a partner involved, OR we take out our vibrator for a yummie moment on our own. Now, what I mean when I say ‘explore and get curious on your own’ is not necessarily for you to just get off quickly - although I am definitely not against that ;) – it is for you to awaken your entire body real slowly so your pussy can slowly but surely get aroused and get you into your most activated and yummie state. A state where your true orgasmic nature comes to life. A state where your authentic self is there without shame, without doubts or fears. A state where opportunities are limitless.

Now how do you do that if there is no vibrator involved?

Oil.

Lots of oil.

Good music.

Deep breathing.

Movement.

Sound – lots of sound (no, not the porn star moaning, but whatever sound is there for you at that moment. Set yourself free, completely.)

A glass dildo or a yoni egg – or just your fingers.

Time and patience. Learn how to heat up your body, learn how to relax when you start building up sexual tension. Learn when your pussy is a yes for penetration and when it is a ‘no’.

Build confidence in your expression.

Self pleasuring to build confidence and build your orgasmic experience is an art (!). And therefore it is to be learned. Now, no one went to Pleasure School, so I invite you to finally set yourself free and allow yourself to explore these orgasmic states in my new program "Bliss". A 5week journey where you learn how to be your best lover so you can become a magnet for orgasmic experiences and your deepest desires.

Also: don’t make orgasm the goal. Rather focus on the playfulness, on the joy you experience from your own divine body. Don’t take any second of the exploration for granted. There is so much more to sex than those few seconds of orgasm.