
Where Women
Become Epic Lovers
Hi,
My Name Is Shari

I help you connect with your body, your pleasure, and your desires—so you can become the lover, the woman, the force you were always meant to be.
I Didn’t Always Feel Sexy,

or Wanted,
or Enough.
For a long time, I believed I had to fix myself—my body, my confidence, the way I moved through the world.
I wasn’t the hot one. I was the friend of the popular girls—close enough to feel seen, but never the one being desired.
That story shaped me: always almost, never quite.
But something whispered:
“There’s more.”
More than performative sex. More than ticking boxes. More than going through the motions.
And I listened.
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That whisper led me into the world of Tantra & Sensuality —where I discovered that my pleasure wasn’t missing… it was just buried beneath layers of expectation and disconnection.

Tantra Taught Me That
My Turn-On Lives In The Slow.

In the breath, the build-up, the sacred in-between.
It wasn’t the fast, penetrative, mainstream kind of sex that lit me up.
It was energetic. Sensual. Alive.
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That changed everything. And I realized: so many women don’t even know what they’re missing.
You Don’t Need Fixing.
You need unleashing.
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You don’t need a different body. You need a new way of seeing it.
You don’t need to perform pleasure. You need to feel it.
Truly. Deeply. On your terms.

Every Woman Has
Her Own Pleasure Language.

And discovering yours? That’s where the magic begins.
As a sensuality and sexuality teacher and boudoir photographer, I guide you to:
→ Reclaim your body as your own.
→ Learn the unique ways you experience turn-on.
→ Choose a life that feels delicious, magnetic, and fully yours.

I Am An Orgasmic Woman.
& So Are You.
Credentials & Training
currently: VITA sex, love and relationship certification - by Layla Martin
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currently: student at the Temple of Radiance to become an Embodied Tantra Facilitator - by Arja Hendrikx & Amanda Biccum
Tao Tantric Arts - Sacred Feminine Arts Teacher Training - by Shashi Soluna & Minke De Vos
Awaken as Love - stage 1​